As August draws to a close, it’s only natural to take a deep breath, glance down at your favourite pair of heels—and wonder: what will you stride boldly into this autumn? At Walking in Heels, our August Sassy Series has been all about building confidence, celebrating unique journeys, and transforming each step into an act of self-celebration. But the magic doesn’t end with the summer sun. True confidence is a habit, not a season—and the shift into September is the perfect moment to harness all you’ve learned, and carry it into the months ahead.
Reflecting on Your Summer in Heels
Whether you attended your first VIP tuition, dared to try a new style, or simply grew more comfortable in your own skin (and shoes), summer offers a natural pause to celebrate progress. Maybe you only took a few steps outside in your boldest heels, or you managed a spontaneous dance at a garden party. Every small win matters. Take a moment now to flick through your own ‘Heel Diaries’—mental or otherwise—and identify the breakthroughs worth savouring:
- – Did you feel prouder in public, even for a moment?
- Did you try a new heel height, colour, or style?
- Were there laughs (and lessons) in each mishap, and a little more grace in every recovery?
These micro-milestones add up to something tremendous: the habit of meeting new challenges with self-compassion and curiosity.
Why Confidence Isn’t Seasonal
It’s tempting to think confidence is something you ‘work on’ for special occasions, or only show off when the weather turns warm and wardrobes open up. In reality, the skills gained from mindful heel-walking—grounded presence, posture, playful experimentation—are deeply transferable. From the everyday school run to those big autumn events, your ability to walk tall under pressure is ready to serve you, year-round.
September brings fresh routines, new opportunities, and, for many, the first note of a busier social or work calendar. If nerves rise or self-doubt creeps in as you swap summer sandals for closed-toe favourites, pause for a moment. The skills, care, and self-appreciation you practised all summer have equipped you for just this transition.
Tips to Keep Your Heels High (and Your Head Higher)
- 1. **Refresh Your Rituals:** Autumn calls for cosier layers and, perhaps, a wardrobe shake-up. Take this as a cue to revisit your heel-care and confidence rituals. Clean and store your summer pairs lovingly, and give your autumn styles a bit of extra TLC. Rituals bring intention, familiarity, and peace to the threshold of any new season.
- 2. **Set September Intentions:** Make confidence your goal—not perfection. Consider jotting a mini list: “This season, I want to…” (Feel more at ease in meetings, celebrate a milestone, try a new walking route, etc.) You could even snap a ‘before’ photo to look back on in October and see the growth that unfolds.
- 3. **Use Your Heel Diary:** Continue documenting your walks, victories, and insights. It doesn’t have to be fancy—a short note on your phone or a quick snap will do. Keeping track keeps you motivated and proud, especially when days feel ‘ordinary’ or challenging.
- 4. **Embrace the Unknown:** New seasons are for trying new things. Whether it’s a different style, event, or simply reaching out to someone for support, let yourself be a little braver this September. Often, saying “yes” to unfamiliar opportunities is where the real transformation happens.
- 5. **Stay Connected:** Lean into your community—online or in person. If you’re seeking advice on autumn heel styles, shoe care, or facing a confidence wobble, Walking in Heels is here for chats, check-ins, and bespoke one-to-one support.
Heels Beyond Summer: Walking in Your Story
Perhaps the best lesson from a summer of VIP heel-walking tuition is this: confidence, like style, evolves. Some days you’ll want to stride and shine; others you’ll honour your energy with gentle movement and quiet pride. Both are valid. The real magic is in the commitment to keep showing up for yourself—rain or shine, kitten heel or platform.
September, with its energy of fresh starts, is a wonderful chance to recommit to your personal journey. Whether you’re learning to walk taller at work, perfecting your sashay for a wedding, or simply owning your unique stride, let the quiet determination of autumn boost you further.
Walking in Heels is With You, Every Step
You’re never alone in this journey. At Walking in Heels, every story is celebrated—no matter the month or milestone. From practical advice to emotional encouragement, you’ll find support, expertise, and a celebration of every stride taken. And if you want to revisit a technique, try a fun new challenge, or simply need to talk out your next steps, Maribel is always at your service.
Keep your confidence alive this autumn. Your strongest, most authentic self didn’t vanish with the heatwave—it’s right there, stepping into September with vision and pride.
Heels are for everyone. Confidence is, too. Happy striding!
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Maribel is a Lucie Clayton Finishing School graduate and founder of Walking in Heels. She offers supportive, inclusive VIP heel-walking tuition in Brighton & Hove, across the UK (by arrangement), and worldwide virtually. Carry your confidence forward—the next chapter is yours to write.