There’s a certain thrill in shopping for heels—a promise of transformation, confidence, and, yes, that irresistible click with every step. But let’s be honest: the world is overflowing with heel shapes, heights, materials, and buzzwords that can leave even the savviest shoe-lover overwhelmed. At Walking in Heels, we believe that every journey in heels should feel as good as it looks. Here’s how to choose your next pair for comfort and style, at any stage of your heel-walking journey—plus some professional tips to ensure a supportive, sassy stride no matter your story or skill level.
Why Your Perfect Pair Matters
The magic of heels isn’t about impressing others or ticking boxes for fashion trends. It’s about expressing yourself, building confidence, and creating moments of joy and pride with every wear. The ‘perfect pair’ is different for everyone. What they share: they fit well, support your body, and empower you to stand tall—literally and figuratively.
Know Thyself (and Your Occasion)
Before you even scan the shelves or click ‘add to basket’, pause and consider your purpose. Are you buying heels for a special occasion—like a wedding, prom, performance, or a professional milestone? Or is this the first pair for everyday confidence, or just to see what’s possible? Being honest about your needs ensures you skip regret (and blisters) later.
Ask yourself:
– Where do I want to wear these heels most?
– Will I be standing, sitting, dancing, or walking long distances?
– Am I new to heels or already have a collection?
If you’re completely new, there’s no rule that says you must start tall! A small, stable heel can build confidence faster than wobbling in skyscrapers.
Heel Height: It’s Personal (Not a Competition)
Contrary to what glossy magazines suggest, heel height is about comfort, anatomy, and context. Here’s the Walking in Heels take:
– Kitten heels (1–2in): Ideal for new walkers, those on the go, or anyone after subtle lift and all-day wearability.
– Mid-heels (2–3in): Great for building skill and comfort, often easier for events or office wear.
– High heels (3–4in+): Make a statement, perfect for stage, special occasions, or those ready for a challenge—but only if you want to.
If you’re not sure, start low. Confidence in your walk matters more than centimetres on your shoe. Ignore style ‘shoulds’—choose what feels right in your body.
Style and Structure: Choose for You
Heels come in a kaleidoscope of shapes—stilettos, block heels, platforms, wedges, flatforms, courts, sandals, boots, and more. Each serves its own blend of form and function. A few tips for picking your best fit:
- – **Block or wedge heels offer more stability** than thin stilettos, especially for beginners or anyone nervous about wobbling.
- **Ankle straps and supportive uppers** add security and minimise slipping (especially useful for group events, dancing, or early-stage confidence building).
- **Closed-toe or peep-toe styles** offer a different vibe and may suit different occasions (and foot shapes).
- **Cushioned insoles and built-in arch support** are more important than splashy brand names. Comfort always pays off.
Play with colour, materials, and accents that excite you or suit your outfit plan—never be afraid to express your style.
Fit Matters More Than Fancy Labels
One of the biggest mistakes? Choosing style over fit, and hoping your feet will ‘adapt’. The truth: a well-fitting heel supports your arch, hugs your heel without pinching, and gives your toes room to move. Here’s a quick fit checklist:
- – Try both shoes on (feet can be asymmetrical!) and walk a few steps if possible.
- Shop for shoes late in the day—your feet naturally swell and you’ll get a truer fit.
- Leave a small space (about a finger’s width) at the front—cramped toes lead to misery.
- If you’re shopping virtually, check size charts—sizing can vary wildly between brands and countries.
And: never feel guilty for returning shoes that don’t work for your feet. Comfort is non-negotiable.
Maribel’s Bonus Tips: Making Heels Love You Back
- – **Prepare Your Shoes:** Try shoe stretchers or gel pads, especially for special event shoes.
- **Break Them In:** Wear around the house for short bursts before a big day.
- **Care Counts:** Store your heels well, clean them post-wear, and repair any scuffs early.
- **Listen to Your Body:** No style is worth pain. If something feels wrong, it probably is—switch it up!
Why the Right Heels Transform Your Journey
The best part of finding your perfect heels? You stop fighting your shoes, and start enjoying your walk. Confidence grows from comfort and self-respect—so honour your feet and your style equally. At Walking in Heels, I see time and again that a considered choice unlocks not just new skills, but a new sense of pride.
Whether you are buying for your first prom, a once-in-a-lifetime performance, a wedding, or simply because you want to strut to the supermarket with sass, take your time and enjoy the process. Seeking bespoke guidance? My VIP Heel-Walking Tuition is always here to help—all journeys and all feet welcome.
Ready to step out in style and comfort? Your dream pair is waiting.
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Maribel is the founder of Walking in Heels and a Lucie Clayton Finishing School graduate. She offers inclusive, supportive, one-to-one tuition in Brighton & Hove, across the UK, and worldwide via video. Heels are for everyone—confidence is, too.